the real push present

by Blue-Eyed Bride on June 30, 2009

Note: There’s a special new section to my website called “Baby Hudson.” If you look at my tabs, you’ll see the “Baby Hudson” tab. I’ll try to update it at least once a week with new pictures of the baby for those of you that are interested!

 

Do you remember this post? You know, the one about the push present.

Well… I wanted to introduce all of you to my push present. This is my “Congratulations, Erin, you just pushed out a kindergartener” present.

He got me the pearl because it the birthstone for June. Every time I look at it I’ll think of Hudson and his June 5 birthday. {And I’ll think, “Dang! This is a gorgeous ring!”}

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Poor Todd. A couple of hours after the baby was delivered and I had been stitched up, I was lying there and the nurses came in to get me to try to sit up so they could wheel me down the hall to the room where I would be staying overnight. Right before they came in Todd started to give me the gift, so I started opening it, but stopped so we could open it privately after the nurses left. Well two seconds after the nurses got there and I stood up, I fainted. So the push present opening was put on hold for a little while!

My husband out-did himself again! I haven’t been able to wear the ring yet because my fingers are still the size of sausages, but I can’t wait to wear it and get it fitted. (I actually haven’t worn my wedding rings in two months either because of the size of my fingers)

A little help here… how long should I give my fingers to return to their normal size before I just give up and go get all of my rings sized again?

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1 Tracy June 30, 2009 at 10:56 am

Seriously – that is just beautiful!! You are so blessed!!!

2 Maggie June 30, 2009 at 10:57 am

Oh Erin it is absolutely stunning! What an incredible husband Todd is to get you such a beautiful gift. I hope you enjoy it and of course all of these sweet moments with your Hudson.

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3 Nina June 30, 2009 at 10:59 am

Great work, TC!!! I’m drooling on my laptop. Obsessed. I’m a non-mommy so won’t be much help in the finger dept but that ring is fanfreakintabulous!!!!

4 Jessica Lynn June 30, 2009 at 10:59 am

so pretty! he did good! :)

5 mrspreppy June 30, 2009 at 11:00 am

It took my fingers about 2 1/2 months to get back to their normal size. And, I also got a Yurman ring as my push present! It is the eternity band with diamonds and blue topaz.

6 Mojito Maven June 30, 2009 at 11:00 am

YAYAYAYAY I love it!!! Psssssssst. I actually have that ring!!!! We really were separated at birth!

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7 Annie June 30, 2009 at 11:00 am

That is lovely! Can you send my husband a memo? After three children, i have never received a push present (to be fair, I didn’t push anything out, as I had c-sections, but I do like presents!)

Your fingers will return to normal, sooner than you think. Drink lots of water and move as much as possible. I got rid of so many clothes during my first pregnancy – it seemed impossible that I would get back to my normal size, but it happens!

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8 kate June 30, 2009 at 11:02 am

Gorgeous!!! Attaboy Todd!!!

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9 The Preppy Princess June 30, 2009 at 11:16 am

What a lovely gift Miss BEB, just beautiful. And we are loving every look at your precious Hudson. :)

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10 Sara June 30, 2009 at 11:19 am

Gorgeous! And, love that it’s Hudson’s birthstone. So precious!

I just re-read your first “push present” post and love, love, love the idea of a third band. I designed my rings and have kind of kicked myself I didn’t get another band just like my wedding band to go on the other side of my engagement ring.

11 Melissa June 30, 2009 at 11:20 am

Beautiful!

12 Jenny of Lucky in Love June 30, 2009 at 11:23 am

Wow! Go Todd :)

Gorgeous ring!

P.S. I will be forwarding this to Matt!

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13 Melissa Bradley June 30, 2009 at 11:41 am

It’s gorgeous!!!!

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14 Allison June 30, 2009 at 11:46 am

Gorgeous! Good choice, Todd! :)

I have no idea about the rings sizing, but from what my cousins and friends have said you’ll get back there eventually. One of my cousins told me to get my wedding band a bit bigger than my engagement ring so I can wear it longer. That happened on accident, so I kept it that way!

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15 Kristin June 30, 2009 at 11:47 am

Ohhhh, I LOVE that! So pretty. As far as the ring sizing, I have no idea. I’ve been married for 9.5 months and before that was engaged for 9 months and I’ve had my rings sized twice… once smaller and then recently a bit bigger! (And, no babies for us yet.) If you still feel like you’re carrying water weight, I’d hold off a bit just because I’ve seen how much my finger size can fluctuate just from humidity, temperature, and maybe even the little bit of weight I’ve gained (I’m talking 5 lbs or so) since getting married.

16 Cee June 30, 2009 at 11:59 am

Wow! Amazing ring! Good job Todd!

17 shannon June 30, 2009 at 12:00 pm

LOVE IT!!! David Yurman is my fave!! What a great hubby!

18 Harolina June 30, 2009 at 12:01 pm

B.E.B. that is a gorgeous ring…love, love, love! Congratulations! Your son is beautiful!

19 Kimba June 30, 2009 at 12:08 pm

Gorgeous, Stunning, Beautiful!!!!

20 jaime June 30, 2009 at 12:08 pm

That is a gorgeous ring!! Your husband did an awesome job!

21 The wife June 30, 2009 at 12:10 pm

So pretty!

Don’t have your rings resized yet! Given that we have children born around the same size I can tell you that it may take a little while longer than “normal” for the swelling to go down. Not to mention, the heat and meds you are on right now may be contributing to the swelling hanging around.

22 Melissa June 30, 2009 at 12:14 pm

Gorgeous ring! You certainly earned it! :)

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23 cyndi June 30, 2009 at 12:14 pm

Oh Erin, it’s FANTASTIC!!!!

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24 April June 30, 2009 at 12:16 pm

Erin – this is the most beautiful ring I have ever seen!! Which hand/finger are you planning to wear it on?

25 Gwen June 30, 2009 at 12:18 pm

That is seriously the most beautiful push present I’ve ever seen!!! Todd did a fabulous job and how sweet that it’s something you can wear every day if you want!!! XOXO

26 Sweet Simplicity June 30, 2009 at 12:31 pm

That is a gorgeous ring! Your hubs did a great job!!

27 Southern June 30, 2009 at 12:33 pm

Beautiful! My little guy was born in April and the gemstone is the diamond. Hubs said I already had one, so didn’t need another….I beg to differ. I think earrings are definitely needed – big beautiful diamond ones! ;-)

28 AEOT June 30, 2009 at 12:39 pm

Wow- it’s beautiful! What an amazing husband you have!! I would definitely wait on sizing the rings for a few months as a lot of my friends have taken at least 6 months to get everything “back to normal”. Can’t wait to see more Hudson pics!

29 Gracie Beth June 30, 2009 at 12:42 pm

How beautiful! You are one lucky lady. I will have to remember this ring when people want to know what I want for college graduation in 2 years because I have a June birthday as well!

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30 crystal June 30, 2009 at 12:43 pm

he did good!!!! what a gorgeous ring! :)

31 shaz June 30, 2009 at 12:53 pm

dont get your rings fitted, it took about a month for me to get them on and now, which is 2 months later my rings are back to normal and even a little loose… the ring is gorgeous!!! I love my david yurman ring i wear it with everything, ive always loved the pearl ring, you have a sweet husband!!!

32 LauraAnn June 30, 2009 at 1:00 pm

Wow! That is a great ‘push’ present! He did a great job!!!!

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33 Legallyblondemel June 30, 2009 at 1:01 pm

Seriously, can we put your husband in touch with mine for gift consultation! T obviously hit it out of the park, again. I love that ring on its own merits, but that the pearl marks the birth month makes it that much more special.

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34 Tara Gibson June 30, 2009 at 1:05 pm

that is a gorgeous ring!!! Great Job Todd

35 d.a.r. June 30, 2009 at 1:29 pm

Oh my goodness, that is so gorgeous!!!

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36 Belle on Heels June 30, 2009 at 1:40 pm

love, love, LOVE that ring!! one of my besties got it as her wedding present from her groom and it is SO stunning in person. lucky girl!

37 Slynnro June 30, 2009 at 1:44 pm

That Todd is quite the gift giver.

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38 USCEmily June 30, 2009 at 1:50 pm

Looove the ring!!

39 Heather June 30, 2009 at 1:55 pm

This ring is absolutely gorgeous! & congrats on Baby Hudson, he is beautiful!!! :)

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40 The Northerner June 30, 2009 at 2:05 pm

What a pretty ring! My birthday is in June too, so I may need this :)

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41 Erica June 30, 2009 at 2:10 pm

Gorgeous! Now I need to find a way for my husband to find out about this thing you call the “push present”! :-)

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42 Rachel June 30, 2009 at 2:12 pm

Erin, that ring is BEAUTIFUL! What a great symbol for your baby boy. My husband and I are not ready for babies yet, but once our time is here, I know I’m going to ave to start hinting about a push present! I love the idea!

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43 Jess June 30, 2009 at 2:18 pm

That ring is gorgeous!!!

What a great job Todd did!

44 amy June 30, 2009 at 2:22 pm

Gorgeous ring! Your hubby did a great job!

It took me about 2 months until I could wear my wedding rings again (and it was during the winter months)…i would check every single morning and then one day they fit…i was so excited!

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45 Jill June 30, 2009 at 2:24 pm

Beautiful! I love DY! Such a nice present!!!

46 Lyndsey June 30, 2009 at 2:32 pm

WOW! Beautiful!! i am dying for a DY! :) I have informed Adam and a new super duper Canon mom camera is indeed what my push present should be :)

47 Lis June 30, 2009 at 3:47 pm

Oh Erin, it is simply amazing!! And you poor thing fainting!! I’m so glad you are ok!!

The hubby did an amazing job – this is definitely a ring to treasure forever!!

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48 Lauren June 30, 2009 at 4:00 pm

Wow…that ring is beautiful! What a way to remember your first born.

49 christina cadden June 30, 2009 at 4:01 pm

Beautiful ring!

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50 Preppy 101 June 30, 2009 at 4:38 pm

It is gorgeous!! Todd is #1 DAD and HUSBAND!!! I couldn’t wear my wedding rings either with both of mine. But don’t resize yours. You will be that small again! I honestly cannot remember when I could wear my rings again. Been too long ;-) But I remember when I was back in my clothes, I was back in my rings. xoxo
P.S. So excited about the new Baby Hudson section.

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51 crystal pye June 30, 2009 at 6:26 pm

Hey Erin,
I gave myself a 3 mo. time limit before I was going to give in to the fact that my fingers were permantly swollen, and about a week before my deadline I squeezed into my rings. Trust me they will return to normal. Your new ring is gorgeous!

52 Megan June 30, 2009 at 7:36 pm

Way to go Todd! The boy did GOOD!! It’s incredible!!

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53 Becky June 30, 2009 at 8:23 pm

That is beautiful-what a thoughtful husband :) That’s so funny you fainted, poor thing! I’m sure your fingers will be back to normal in no time!

54 GingerSnap June 30, 2009 at 9:01 pm

What a pretty ring! I love pearls too :)

55 Megan June 30, 2009 at 9:37 pm

Soooooo pretty!! You are a lucky girl!!
I am thinking about having my rings resized, they barely go on and off and have caused huge ‘dents’ in my fingers, and I haven’t even had a baby! How sad is that?!?!?

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56 Elizabeth June 30, 2009 at 10:10 pm

i love that! your husband is so thoughtful….i can’t believe he thought of the june birthstone and pearl. i love this and i’m not a big jewelry person. at. all! i hadn’t heard of a push present either till you did your post.

57 Megan June 30, 2009 at 11:40 pm

It’s beautiful!! He did GOOD!

58 Sarah July 1, 2009 at 7:52 am

Simply lovely, Erin.

What a beautiful reminder of your gorgeous son and amazing husband.

My birthstone is a pearl as well-LOVE receiving pearls as gifts. That ring is fabulous!

Your fingers will be fine…;)

59 Windy City Kelley's July 1, 2009 at 1:38 pm

Wow, what a beautiful ring! I hope you can wear it soon :)

60 Anna July 1, 2009 at 4:49 pm

Just gorgeous!

61 Jen July 1, 2009 at 8:44 pm

I thought the “push present” was the baby???

62 Rachel July 1, 2009 at 9:07 pm

I’m going to keep my fingers crossed that I get a push present, and I’ll have to show your gift to Grant, so he’ll hopefully get the hint. :)

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63 Robin Elise Weiss July 2, 2009 at 8:21 am

Given that it’s summer and you’re less than a month postpartum, I’d wait for at least early September. You still are probably carrying a lot of extra fluids from pregnancy and even more from the lengthy induction.

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64 Heather July 2, 2009 at 9:18 am

Beautiful!! :)

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65 anna July 2, 2009 at 7:35 pm

Thanks for making sure the David Yurman bag was featured prominently in the photo, for those who may be unsure of the designer.

66 Kelly July 2, 2009 at 8:04 pm

Wow Jen, that was a little (aka a lot) judgemental. Obviously the baby is a wonderful gift, what does adding something extra hurt?

Todd did a great job and the “push present” idea is wonderful. ;o) I LOVE David Yurman, Great job Todd!

67 Jen July 2, 2009 at 11:21 pm

Kelly… Wasn’t being judgmental at all!! Sorry if it came off that way =( It cut off the rest of my comment. After that, I said that I had never heard of a “push present” as an actual gift to commemorate the birth, but I was sure going to pass it on to my husband. Sorry for the misunderstanding!

68 Kelly July 5, 2009 at 11:29 am

That ring is gorgeous!!!! Scott had planned to get me flowers after Harper and then we had to rush off to a different town. But I’m re-doing our family room and I’ll count that! ha!
Give it a little bit. I was soooooooooooooooo swollen after Harper. It took 2-3 months and I FINALLY got back to normal. And that was in the winter – summer will be harder. You’ll ge there – don’t get them re-sized.

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69 Kelly July 5, 2009 at 12:28 pm

My mistake Jen, sorry! I realized my post came across harsh too. Love internet communication!

I still want that ring…

70 Southern Savvy July 18, 2009 at 4:37 pm

Gosh, I was swollen (fingers and feet) for nearly 6 months! My feet got back to normal a little quicker than my fingers for some reason. But, I had preeclampsia towards the end of my pregnancy with lots of swelling and then I had to be induced which I’m told prolongs the swelling issue? Anyway, give it time and your body will adjust. Baby H is a cutie. Congrats!

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