From the monthly archives:

September 2009

home tour tuesday: the study

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 29, 2009

Other than the nursery, this is the only room we have painted. We chose to paint it the Benjamin Moore match to Restoration Hardware’s Silver Sage.

This room used to be our second guest bedroom. It had a queen size four-poster bed in it and it was so great to have a second room where guests could sleep. Then we found out we’d be turning our former study into the nursery. We considered not having a study, but because Todd has to work so often on the weekends and because blogging has become such a big hobby of mine, we knew that we needed a space for all of these activities other than a nook in our bedroom.

So we turned the study into the nursery and the second guest bedroom into the study. Our house has four bedrooms, but we just use one as a study/home office.

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The desk was mine in high school and I still love it. I bought the file cabinet to match last year. They’re both from a company called British Traditions and we found them at Market, of course. Can’t beat the wholesale prices.

On my desk, I have the computer, the baby monitor, a return address stamp, two mail sorters, a lamp, and my Junior League binder.

The cafe shelves above the desk are from Ballard Designs and allow us to get some of the junk off of the desk. Desk clutter stresses me out– like any clutter does– so I’m loving these shelves. I wish they’d had an antique white to match the desk and file cabinet, but I like having a few different finishes in the room.

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When we installed the shelves, I finally had a place to display all of my wedding coffee table books that Todd loves so much!

The little round table is the Terrific Table from Ballard Designs and I recently purchased the Terrific Table Burlap Fringe table cloth. Ballard is such a great resource for these items because the table cloths fit the tables perfectly and you don’t have to have something custom made.

Because we weren’t too excited about losing our second guest bed, we decided to get a chair and a half. So we have this large, super comfy chair and ottoman. We can wheel the ottoman out of the way and the chair unfolds into a twin bed. The mattress is paper thin, but it does work for an extra place for someone to sleep when we have lots of overnight guests. (Last fall we had 11 people in our house at once — not including Todd and me– so we were so thankful to have that four-poster bed.) The mirror and lamp came from a company called Uttermost– also found at Market in Atlanta.

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We picked up the sisal rug from Strobler, a local furniture store.

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The two stacked baskets hold all of my wedding binders and resources, but keep them hidden nicely.

The chifferobe has been mine since I was 2 years old and moved into my first “big girl” room. It has moved approximately 9 times (between family moves and my apartment to house moves), so I had it refinished and repaired right before we got married. It is an excellent source of storage and currently holds all of my scrapbooking materials, ribbons, markers, and all of my wedding-related coffee table books. There is also a tiny TV in the small cabinet and it is so cozy to sit in that big chair to watch TV on a rainy day.

So now you’ve seen our study/home office. And now you know where I’m sitting when I write all of these posts! Where do you do your blogging?

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it’s my anniversary! here’s a giveaway!

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 28, 2009

It’s my 2 year blogiversary! Let’s celebrate!

Two years ago I started this blog as a means to write about my wedding planning process and keep our friends and family in the loop. Two years, 451 posts, a wedding, a baby, and my own domain later it has become a great outlet for me to write about lots of different things (could I be anymore random?) and I’ve met so many great friends.

To celebrate my anniversary, I’m hosting a Blurb giveaway. Don’t you just love Blurb?!

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I am giving away 4 bookmaking codes for $59.95 to Blurb.com! This is the starting price for their new 12×12 book!

You can use the $59.95 toward whatever you wish at Blurb.com, however.

The winners will receive a bookmaking code

I did this giveaway last year and it was so much fun!

To enter, leave a comment on this post telling me what kind of Blurb book you’d make. Maybe you want a wedding guest book. It could be your wedding album. Maybe it’s a book of your baby’s photos or letters you’ve written to your baby. Or maybe you want to put all of your blog posts into a book so you can have them forever.

Honestly, I’m a little behind on my Blurb bookmaking and need to make a honeymoon book, start making baby books, and I’d like to make a book of Blue-Eyed Bride up to this point.

Also, I wanted to let you all know that Blurb is hosting its very first Best Blurb Books Contest and the winner will receive $3,000! Woot! The books will be judged in three categories: family, pet, and travel (weddings, honeymoon, and kids are obviously in the family category).

So those of you that have already created a Blurb book, you just need to order a copy of your book to be eligible! Who doesn’t want $3,000?! You can also see some pretty amazing books over on the contest website.

Here are the top 5 reasons to enter the Best Blurb Books Contest:

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Go to this link to enter! http://www.blurb.com/photo-book-contest

So enter my giveaway by leaving a comment and enter the Best Blurb Books Contest by going to the link above!

The deadline for my giveaway is Friday, October 2! Good luck!

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what we’ve been up to

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 24, 2009

WARNING: This post is definitely guilty of picture overload.

Hudson and I are still in Dallas. We miss Todd terribly, but we’re having a great time.  Here are the highlights of the past two weeks:

1. We left last Tuesday for our tour of Louisiana to see family and friends.  We stopped in Shreveport for lunch at Cheesecake Bistro with one of my very first blog friends and the author of one of my favorite blogs, Cyndi of Southern Daze.  Cyndi and I had been trying to meet up for a long time.  We “met” when she found my blog and saw that I was from Louisiana originally.  Then she found the amazingly talented Kelly Moore through my blog and realized that Kelly lives right down the road from her.  She hired Kelly to take some family photos and then our e-relationship started.  We were going to meet up last Thanksgiving, but I was suffering from severe morning all-day sickness and was in the beginning of my pregnancy.

We had so much fun on Tuesday. When I hugged her I told her that I feel like we’ve met a million times before.  How can it be possible that I feel like I know someone so well but had never met her before? She has always been such a source of encouragement and inspiration for me. If you don’t read her blog, you should. I’m looking forward to the next time we get together!

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2. We continued on to Ruston, Louisiana and Quitman, Louisiana to visit with my mom’s brother and his family. My cousin and her sweet baby girl were also in town, so it was a lot of fun watching the babies meet for the first time. Lily, her daughter, is 8 months old and is a ball of energy and all about playing. She was so into Hudson, but he is still only rolling over and only occasionally reaching to grab things.  He wasn’t much of a playmate for Lily.

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3. When we left Ruston and Quitman a couple of days later, we travelled on to Baton Rouge where we visited with my great-aunt and got to see my other cousin and her husband for a few minutes. We also visited with some great family friends down there. And, of course, we didn’t hesitate to eat as much amazing food as possible.

We left Baton Rouge and went to New Orleans for the afternoon to see my mom’s best friend and her beautiful house and have lunch.

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When we left New Orleans, we drove back to Ruston so Hudson could attend his first Louisiana Tech football game and hang out with his Uncle Walker (my brother). We also met up with one of my bridesmaids and her sister at Waffle House the morning after the game. A baby should experience Waffle House at a young age, right?

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4. We came back to Dallas on Sunday night, and on Monday we met Mrs. Preppy and her precious baby girl, A.  They came over for dinner and a play date.  Again, A was great at playing, but Hudson was still just interested in lying there and babbling. The babbling is adorable, by the way. So glad we got to meet these two.  I wish we lived closer so the babies could play more often! 

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5. On Tuesday night, I got to participate in the infamous Champagne Thursday– yes, on Tuesday– at Dali with Mojito Maven, Kate, Maggie, and Slynnro. These girls are so much fun and, again, I wish I lived closer so I could play more often!

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6. Last night, I had dinner with my best friends, Catherine and Jennifer.  Of course we had a fantastic time. Fortunately, we had just seen each other for a weekend in Columbia, so we were able to do lots of chatting with having to do a lot of “catching up.” I miss these girls so much! Unfortunately, we still don’t have a picture of Jennifer and Hudson!

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 7.  And you must see Hudson with his KK.  She and Poppie love him so much!

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so what are you doing?

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 22, 2009

We had a great week last week as we traveled through the state of Louisiana and visited so many wonderful friends and family members. It was great catching up with everyone and I’m thrilled that Hudson was able to meet so many people who love him.

I also enjoyed talking to everyone about motherhood and this new part of my life.  There were, however, a few moments when I felt like I just didn’t have an answer to the questions.  I’m a stay-at-home-mom now and stay really busy all day long taking care of Hudson and making sure all of his needs are met. 

When I was talking to some of our friends this week, a few of them asked, “Well, what are you doing now?”

This was right after I told them I quit my job at the end of July and decided to stay home with Hudson. I told  them again, though, when they asked the question. “I’m staying home with Hudson.”

“Yeah, but what are you doing?”

Hmm…. “Well, I’m feeding, burping, changing, playing, rocking, cleaning bottles, making bottles, feeding, burping, changing, playing, rocking, etc.”

“No, but what else are you doing?”

See what I mean? I just don’t know how to answer the question.  I chose to stay home because I wanted to be the one at home with our baby.  Occasionally I have to go to a doctor’s appointment or I go get my hair cut and highlighted.  I take him with me to the store and we’re at the point when we are bringing him to dinner with us instead of staying in all the time.

The question got me thinking about what it is I’m doing.  Don’t get me wrong. I’m 100% happy and content about my decision to stay home with Hudson.  But should I be doing something else? 

I’m not working from home in a way that I get a paycheck.  I’m not a runner.  That would take up a lot of time and be a really healthy hobby. 

I am in the Junior League and am about to get really busy with my placement.  (I’m on Holiday Market Tickets again this year as the Co-Vice Chair.) We’re involved with our Sunday school class and enjoy all of the time we spend with our friends.

I guess the question just caught me off guard.  I didn’t feel defensive, but I did question myself and my self-worth. Isn’t it crazy how one person can make you feel that way? I love my life and I love how I spend my day. I am so much happier every day than I was six months ago when I was completely stressed out. I felt like I had the weight of the world on my shoulders with everything I was trying to get done at work between all of the events, the budgets, and teaching classes that I wasn’t getting paid to teach.  Life is good and I love what I do. I don’t have exciting stories to tell about crazy things happening at work– and I had lots of those stories when I was working.  But I do get to spend my day with my precious boy and know that it’s making me happier than the way I was spending my days before June 5, 2009.

This post isn’t about being a stay-at-home-mom. It’s about my insecurities and my worry about what people think.  When I was working, I always worried that someone would think that my job wasn’t good enough or think that being an event planner at a University wasn’t a real job.  I didn’t make a lot of money doing it and I knew that. It always hurt my feelings when people were surprised to find out that I have a Masters degree to do my job. 

I think I’ve felt this way since I got out of college. I was really involved in everything in college and always had something going on. Or I was the President of something else. When I got out of grad school and started working, there weren’t many other responsibilities.

I just need to get over it and feel proud about all of the things that I am.

I’m a wife.  A mother.  A daughter.  A friend.  A sister.  And I’m a blogger. No, I’m not getting paid to do any of these things. I like to cook, organize, decorate, shop, read, and blog.  I’m looking forward to exercising again, but still have some physical limitations there. I’m also looking forward to using this time at home to figure out to turn my long term goals into a reality.  In the meantime, the answer to the question, “What are you doing now?” is simple. I’m taking care of the relationships in my life and creating a loving home for my family.

Does anyone else feel this way? Are you at a place in your life where you feel fulfilled but have a hard time convincing others that you are, in fact, fulfilled?

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and I owe it all to you…

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 15, 2009

Patrick Swayze.

I’m sure that he was my very first celebrity crush and what a wonderful crush he was.

I saw Dirty Dancing for the first time the year it came out. I was only 5 years old, but my parents let me watch it anyway. I didn’t know what it meant when they said, “Penny got knocked up.” And I didn’t have any idea what kind of operation Baby’s father helped fund to get Penny out of trouble.

I just knew that Baby and Johnny were dancing and they were dancing dirty. I knew that I loved the soundtrack and loved to sing along. I got the soundtrack for Easter that year and I was 100% positive that Baby and Johnny were actually singing “Love Is Strange” and not just lip synching it.

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My absolutely favorite part of the movie is at the end, after they’ve done their routine and did the summer finale “Johnny’s way”, when Johnny is again lip synching the words to “Time of My Life” to Baby. Then he scrunches up his nose and says, “and I owe it all to you!” I just melt. I still melt.

What an incredible talent and he always seemed like such a real person. He was from Texas. He met his wife when he was very young, and despite a very high Hollywood divorce rate, they stayed together.

It’s always sad when a celebrity passes away, but his story just breaks my heart. Mostly because that movie was such a strong piece of my childhood. It’s also sad because it wasn’t a sudden death. It wasn’t surprising to any of us that he died, but still terribly sad.

I saw an episode of Oprah where Patrick Swayze surprised the sweet couple that recreated the “Time of My Life” dance for their wedding. I couldn’t find the episode, but here’s a clip of it in this interview. Such a nice guy to do that for this couple– and can you believe he remembered the dance two years later? I’m pretty sure I did that dance by myself in my bedroom fifty times.

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change of plans

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 14, 2009

I will not be posting any of my usual Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday posts this week because I’m in Dallas. Todd, Hudson, and I flew out here on Saturday morning and we’re spending the next two weeks visiting family and friends in Dallas and all over the great state of Louisiana.

How could I possibly post about mom-style, home tours, and Weight Watchers this week? So many other exciting things are going on!

Todd flew back to Columbia last night and we miss him already, but KK and I have already gotten into plenty of trouble. We purchased Hudson’s entire fall and winter wardrobe at Hip Hip Hooray in Snider Plaza today. Christmas outfits, Magnolia Baby onesies with candy corn on them for Halloween, and plenty of fun things that we monogrammed. Every Southern boy needs his name on his shirt, right? Alright, as soon as he can complain about it I’ll stop making him wear it. But right now it’s up to me!

Tonight I met up with the beautiful Mojito Maven and we went to see The September Issue. She got to meet Baby Hudson. You may recall that she saw me in all of my pregnant glory for a few days in Charleston back in April, so I was really excited for her to meet the boy.  Look at them together! Doesn’t she look so maternal? (Also– please notice her beautiful work attire. She wasn’t joking in her post today!)

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We always have so much fun together and I’m looking forward to hanging out with her again next week.

We leave for Louisiana tomorrow and Hudson will be meeting lots of new friends– and I’ll be meeting another favorite blog friend for the first time. My posting will be extremely limited this week.

I’ll leave you with a couple of pictures of Hudson. I mentioned before that he’s really into sitting up and standing up in my lap. He is just ready to start moving, but doesn’t know that he’s only 3 months old and a little ahead of himself. We decided to go ahead and give the Exer Saucer a try.  He does a good job and he almost has the hang of it, but he’s still a little small for it.

There’s no question that he’s super excited about it, though!

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Weight Watchers Wednesday on Thursday: Week 1

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 10, 2009

Hello to all of my accountability partners. This has been such an interesting week.

I’m sorry that Weight Watchers Wednesday had to come on Thursday this week. Todd’s new firm hosted an open house last night and I was busy all day yesterday preparing for that and then was there most of the night last night. So I apologize! Here’s the update from last week.

It was the beginning of football season, Labor Day weekend, and the beginning of my journey to lose 20 pounds. I bet you know how this all shook out. Football season and Labor Day weekend obviously trumped the journey to lose 20 pounds.

I did well at the beginning of the week. I was eating Lean Cuisines for lunch and depending on what our evening plans were, I was either cooking, eating Special K, or carefully selecting something off of a menu for supper. I think the hardest part about this process is keeping your husband satisfied. If we don’t have plans for dinner– a cooked meal or a trip to a restaurant planned– he’s going to eat cereal. That’s fine once or twice a week and I could probably do it every night of the week. But I just feel bad for him.

I cheated and had a Moo Moo Mr. Cow (kids meal) from Moe’s on Saturday night. I ate sushi on Friday night. But then I discovered my new favorite cookbook.

It’s Cooking Light Fresh Food Fast: 5 ingredient, 15 minute recipes.

Seriously, it took me 12 minutes to cook the meals I made last week. So convenient and it still goes along with my plan to drop 20 pounds.

I’m going to share one of the meals I prepared last week and we both loved it:

Balsamic Chicken with Roasted Tomatoes

1 pint grape tomatoes

1 tablespoon honey

1 1/2 teaspoons olive oil

1/2 teaspoon salt, divided

4 (6-ounce) skinless, boneless chicken breast halves

1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper

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Balsamic vinaigrette salad spritzer (such as Wish-Bone)

1.Preheat oven to 450.

2. Combine first 3 ingredients in a small bowl; place tomato mixture on foil-lined jelly-roll pan. Bake at 450 for 12 minutes or until tomato skins burst and begin to wrinkle, stirring once. Transfer tomatoes to a bowl, scraping juices into the bowl. Stir 1/4 teaspoon salt into tomato mixture.

3. Place each chicken breast half between 2 sheets of heavy-duty plastic wrap; pound to 1/4-inch thickness using a meat mallet or small heavy skillet. Sprinkle chicken evenly with 1/4 teaspoon salt and pepper.

4. Heat a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Coat pan with cooking spray. Add chicken; cook 3 to 4 minutes on each side. P lace chicken on individual plates; coat each breast half with 2 to 3 sprays of balsamic spritzer. Spoon tomatoes evenly over chicken.

Yield: 4 servings

Points: 5

Mushroom and Zucchini Orzo

1 cup uncooked orzo

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1 cup sliced mushrooms

1 cup diced zucchini

1 tablespoon butter

1/2 teaspoon dried oregano

1/4 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black peper

1. Cook orzo according to package directions, omitting salt and fat. Drain and keep warm.

2. While orzo cooks, heat a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Coat pan with cooking spray. Add mushrooms and zucchini; saute 6 minutes or until tender and browned.

3. Combine orzo, mushroom mixture, and remaining ingredients in a large bowl, tossing gently.

Yield: 4 servings

Points: 4

So 9 total points is a little on the high side for a meal, but this meal covers all of the food group bases and it’s really filling. I highly recommend it!

And I’m sure everyone wants a report for this week on weight lost. I lost 2 pounds this week despite the cheating, football season kick off, and Labor Day weekend! Yay for 2 pounds.

How did you do?

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why don’t you just go ahead and say it?

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 10, 2009

Alright, so here goes another rant. I’m going to complain about something completely meaningless.

I love music. I don’t discriminate against any one genre of music. As long as the song is decent, I can listen to it. I even like Country music. Not all of it, but a lot of it.

I am, however, so frustrated when I listen to Country songs and they almost cuss. Why don’t you just go ahead and cuss? I’m pretty sure the little kids that are listening can figure out what you were going to say or what that almost cuss word really means. I know that Country music is supposed to be the most wholesome out of all of the music genres, but when you just rearrange the words to be bass ackwards, isn’t that pretty much the same as cussing?

Here are some examples of this:

“the fits gonna hit the shan.” (American Ride by Toby Keith)

“some beach…” (Some Beach by Blake Shelton)

“Shhhhh….. It happens!” (It Happens by Sugarland)

Now, I don’t particularly like to hear cussing in any kind of music, but these songs just sound like a 5 year old pushing the envelope with his mother just as far as he can. “I didn’t really cuss so you can’t get mad at me!”

And I know why they don’t actually cuss in Country songs. They want their song to be played and not bleeped out. It’s the wholesome genre. This just annoys me.

So it’s silly,  it’s a little bit fun, but it also drives me bonkers. If you’re going to make a statement by almost cussing, why don’t you just go ahead and say it? Because, seriously, it just sounds like a child trying to get away with something.

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home tour tuesday: the master bedroom

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 8, 2009

Finally! I’ve been delaying showing you the master bedroom because it is such a large space and such a hodge podge of stuff!

It used to be the attic, but when the house was renovated and flipped, the entire attic was turned into the master bedroom and bathroom. You come up the stairs and it’s like being in a loft. You’re just already in the master bedroom.

Todd and I both came into this union with a queen size bed. My bed is being used in our guest bedroom and Todd’s was in our second guest bedroom (that I mentioned was turned into the study), but is now in storage. The space for the master bed was very large, so we decided to get a king size bed when we got married.

We ordered the bed from Calico Corners and picked up the upholstery fabric. The bedding was ordered from Eastern Accents and I love it so much! It makes the room so serene. We had the lamps before we got the bedding and I think it all goes together very nicely.

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Before we got this bedding we were using my sorority t-shirt quilt on the bed because it was the only thing large enough. We couldn’t decide on bedding that we loved and I was reluctant to buy anything because, at the time, we had two dogs in our bed with us. I wasn’t about to buy some gorgeous silk bedding and then let the dogs get hair and drool all over it. Then I got pregnant and told those doggies that there just wasn’t room for me, my big fat belly, Todd, Boudreaux, and Fiona in the bed. So Boudreaux and Fiona had to go. We ordered our bedding and ordered a large dog bed from Orvis that would accommodate Boudreaux and Fiona.

I should have seen the inevitable. Before ordering the bed from Orvis, I already had a dog bed that was Boudreaux’s before he started sleeping in our bed. I ordered the large bed because everything one dog has the other one wants. So I just knew that they’d both end up in the bed at the same time. Wrong. Look who sleeps on the big ass dog bed.

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And look who prefers to sleep on the floor because he wouldn’t be caught dead cuddling with Fiona.

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So here’s the rest of our room. Lots of space, right? It has basically become a dog run where they play and romp every morning.

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Then we have this other nook that I’d love to turn into more closet space. Right now we keep the Pack ‘n Play there in case I have to put Hudson in there while I’m doing laundry or taking a shower.

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And here is our laundry area. It’s quite tiny (and full of clean sheets and towels! Yikes!)— in addition to a massive kitchen, my next house will have a massive laundry room.

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This is our closet. We do a decent job of sharing. Most of Todd’s clothes are stored in the two chests of drawers in the bedroom and my sweaters are stored downstairs in the dresser in the guest bedroom. Oh yeah, my next house will have two massive his and hers closets.

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And the master bathroom.

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So there’s our master bedroom. Sorry I couldn’t get it cleaned up anymore for you!

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mom-style monday: lounge wear edition

by Blue-Eyed Bride on September 7, 2009

Let’s face it. There are days in the life of a stay-at-home-mom when you feel like you never get out of your pajamas. You’re woken up by the sound of crying at 6:00 a.m. and you fall asleep on the couch after you get your little one back to bed. You’re woken up by the sound of crying again two hours later and then your day gets started. Little one doesn’t go back to bed at that point. You find yourself stuck in your ratty high school powder puff football t-shirt (ahem, me this morning) and a random pair of white capri pajama pants.

Please don’t let anyone randomly stop by.

Please let mommy get upstairs and get a shower.

When a shower is not an option for lots of reasons,* you must be prepared with alternative outfits that still look great, but don’t require much effort.

*Hudson is not fooled by his bouncy seat. I appreciate the suggestions of putting him in his bouncy seat in the bathroom, but we’ve tried that. I know, I know. I can just let him cry for five minutes while I get my shower, but then I’m stuck with wet hair. I’ll do a “hair edition” of mom-style Monday so you know what my full hair routine is and how much time that requires. I just have to wait for him to take a solid nap before I can shower– or cook.

So here are some low-fuss, perfectly acceptable for trips to the post office or answering to the door to the nosey neighbor who just “pops by” every day.

I mentioned last fall that I’m in love with Gap’s Perfect Pant. Gap doesn’t sell the Perfect Pant anymore, unfortunately. But I found some good options to replace it.

I decided to incorporate some gym clothes with the lounge wear because Hudson and I like to go on walks and I don’t want to have to change clothes AGAIN to go on the walk. Once again, layers are key. All of today’s lounge wear options are from Gap.

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This is the Flare Leg Active Pant. It has just enough flare to balance out my hips, but not so much that they’re dragging around the floor and look too much like pajama pants. I like black pants because they hide flaws and look more streamlined when you go out in public. If you’re wearing black lounge pants you don’t look like you’re in pajamas. Unless you’re still wearing your slippers.

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Now, this tank is a workout tank, but it has a shelf bra. Now, I can’t typically pull off the shelf bra without using a regular bra for reinforcement, but I love the empire waist on this tank and the slight flare that comes over the hips. This is great for my tummy that still hasn’t gotten back under control after stretching to ginormous proportions with a rather large baby.

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I just adore this cotton hooded sweater from Gap. It is so comfy looking, it’s machine washable (you know, because of the spit up), and it’s pretty. I think anything in winter white looks pretty. It’s perfect for just hanging around the house. Put on your cute little earrings, pull your hair up into a ponytail, and you almost look like you spent 20 minutes getting ready that morning. Only you know that you could only get 5 minutes to throw it all together.

Now for the shoes. Remember that this is about lounge wear today and staying comfortable. It’s also about being able to manage your babies and your dogs– meaning you possibly have to run down the street after your Golden Retriever when he takes off after another poor SAHM as she’s strolling her baby past your house. Yes, this has happened.

You’ve got to wear shoes that allow you to move and move without breaking a heel or getting a blister.

(I do like wearing pretty flat sandals with the above options, but those aren’t great for our 3 mile treks around the neighborhood)

These are my favorite options. They’re easy to get on and off– no laces. When your baby is crying and ready to get out the door for a walk and your dog is bouncing from room to room doing the pee pee dance you’ve just got to get out the door!

I love Merrells.

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The Chameleon Arc Mary Jane

Nike also has a similar option that I had in college– so comfy!

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The Encore Breeze

What do you wear to stay comfy at home without staying in your pajamas all day?


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