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		<title>By: Becky</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12884</link>
		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 17:10:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the post because it makes you seem like a real person and I think it&#039;s easy to forget that when I don&#039;t know you and just see pictures of you and your family.  

First of all, about this supposed 20 lbs you need to lose.  If you were ever 20 lbs thinner than you are now, you were clearly too thin.  This is based on pictures of you now with the camera adding 10 lbs.  I can&#039;t imagine how thin you must be in person!

Also, I have had 4 children completely naturally (no drugs or anything) and resent that other women who&#039;ve had natural births are giving us a bad name by being judgemental.  I agree that if you choose to have a c-section that is 100% up to you.  Do people get judged for having other elective surgeries, like a face-lift or gastric bypass or something?  No, so why judge someone who wants a c-section?  Personally, I feel a bit judgemental of doctors who seem to push them on women for their own convenience, but if the mother decides she really wants one after being informed of the risks, that is her decision and no one else&#039;s!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the post because it makes you seem like a real person and I think it&#8217;s easy to forget that when I don&#8217;t know you and just see pictures of you and your family.  </p>
<p>First of all, about this supposed 20 lbs you need to lose.  If you were ever 20 lbs thinner than you are now, you were clearly too thin.  This is based on pictures of you now with the camera adding 10 lbs.  I can&#8217;t imagine how thin you must be in person!</p>
<p>Also, I have had 4 children completely naturally (no drugs or anything) and resent that other women who&#8217;ve had natural births are giving us a bad name by being judgemental.  I agree that if you choose to have a c-section that is 100% up to you.  Do people get judged for having other elective surgeries, like a face-lift or gastric bypass or something?  No, so why judge someone who wants a c-section?  Personally, I feel a bit judgemental of doctors who seem to push them on women for their own convenience, but if the mother decides she really wants one after being informed of the risks, that is her decision and no one else&#8217;s!</p>
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		<title>By: Scottie Mom</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12883</link>
		<dc:creator>Scottie Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 16:35:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erin--I love your blog...even your venting!  Sometimes you just have to dump the baggage somewhere! ;-) And we, your readers, are here to listen.

BTW--if you have not seen it yet...get The Tudors from Showtime (even my husband will watch it over a Sportscenter...at least after he has seen the scores and highlights from his team...).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin&#8211;I love your blog&#8230;even your venting!  Sometimes you just have to dump the baggage somewhere! <img src='http://blueeyedbride.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  And we, your readers, are here to listen.</p>
<p>BTW&#8211;if you have not seen it yet&#8230;get The Tudors from Showtime (even my husband will watch it over a Sportscenter&#8230;at least after he has seen the scores and highlights from his team&#8230;).</p>
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		<title>By: Solar</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12882</link>
		<dc:creator>Solar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can I get my brain together to comment?  My dogs are driving me nuts, I had a dream last night about stepping on the scale, and I wish my friends were closer to see my baby girl.   I had a c section and then spent 6 weeks convincing myself I had wimped out.   The smile in the morning out weighs my frustration come the 5:30 fussies but I have to remind myself of it often.   Great post!  Reminds me that we are in this together.    Happy Thanksgiving.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I get my brain together to comment?  My dogs are driving me nuts, I had a dream last night about stepping on the scale, and I wish my friends were closer to see my baby girl.   I had a c section and then spent 6 weeks convincing myself I had wimped out.   The smile in the morning out weighs my frustration come the 5:30 fussies but I have to remind myself of it often.   Great post!  Reminds me that we are in this together.    Happy Thanksgiving.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12879</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 16:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you for being honest. It takes a lot of courage. I always love reading your blog because of how open and honest you are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you for being honest. It takes a lot of courage. I always love reading your blog because of how open and honest you are.</p>
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		<title>By: Perfectly Imperfect</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12876</link>
		<dc:creator>Perfectly Imperfect</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this is the most honest post I&#039;ve ever read and I don&#039;t get pity party from this at all.  I can only imagine what all you&#039;re going through and I think you&#039;re amazing for doing everything as well as you are. I love coming to your blog everyday for your take on things and to hear how life is going with a little one and pups. You&#039;re one of my faves.. Keep your head up girlie. I personally think you&#039;re awesome =)

Go to your reunion. I went to my 5 year and it was awesome. I can&#039;t wait for the one next year!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is the most honest post I&#8217;ve ever read and I don&#8217;t get pity party from this at all.  I can only imagine what all you&#8217;re going through and I think you&#8217;re amazing for doing everything as well as you are. I love coming to your blog everyday for your take on things and to hear how life is going with a little one and pups. You&#8217;re one of my faves.. Keep your head up girlie. I personally think you&#8217;re awesome =)</p>
<p>Go to your reunion. I went to my 5 year and it was awesome. I can&#8217;t wait for the one next year!</p>
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		<title>By: misslily</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12874</link>
		<dc:creator>misslily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this post brought me out of lurker status.  it&#039;s the most real thing i&#039;ve read on these blogs.  ever.  thank you for sharing it with us</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this post brought me out of lurker status.  it&#8217;s the most real thing i&#8217;ve read on these blogs.  ever.  thank you for sharing it with us</p>
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		<title>By: Stephanie</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12867</link>
		<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 14:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erin,

Hello!  I came across your blog after followingn a link from a posting that Anne (www.annesaysso.com) and then realized that we&#039;re on the JLC HM committee together.  Anyway, just wanted to say hello and that I really like your blog!

-Stephanie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin,</p>
<p>Hello!  I came across your blog after followingn a link from a posting that Anne (www.annesaysso.com) and then realized that we&#8217;re on the JLC HM committee together.  Anyway, just wanted to say hello and that I really like your blog!</p>
<p>-Stephanie</p>
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		<title>By: Brit</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12859</link>
		<dc:creator>Brit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 04:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post, because I feel like that sometimes, too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post, because I feel like that sometimes, too!</p>
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		<title>By: Mojito Maven</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12853</link>
		<dc:creator>Mojito Maven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 01:48:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And this is another reason why we&#039;re besties. 

GAH I feel like I have nothing to blog about or, if i do, it&#039;s always about the same thing: my lost engagement ring or my writing. 

Also, I found this post refreshing and real, not a mini pity party. We all have those days. 

P.S. I love you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And this is another reason why we&#8217;re besties. </p>
<p>GAH I feel like I have nothing to blog about or, if i do, it&#8217;s always about the same thing: my lost engagement ring or my writing. </p>
<p>Also, I found this post refreshing and real, not a mini pity party. We all have those days. </p>
<p>P.S. I love you.</p>
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		<title>By: Miss Monogram</title>
		<link>http://blueeyedbride.com/2009/11/20/honestly/comment-page-1/#comment-12852</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Monogram</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 01:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post.  Sometimes you just have to say it like it is.  And there must be something in the water because blog content has been hard to come by for me too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post.  Sometimes you just have to say it like it is.  And there must be something in the water because blog content has been hard to come by for me too!</p>
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